The pleasure of prostate play has been compared to the enjoyable sensations of G-spot play. Are you ready to experience that for yourself? If you have a penis, you have a prostate. While it can be hard for some people to reach that deep area without help, manufacturers have created sex toys specially designed for stimulation of this erogenous zone.
Prostate massagers aren’t usually designed to be used like standard dildos. You’re free to use them in whatever way feels pleasurable to you. Most prostate massagers are specifically designed with a curved shape so that the toy hits the prostate just right.
While you can find many guides about how to enjoy how to choose a prostate stimulator, getting the hang of it takes some time and practice for most people. But that’s half the fun! Just be sure to lube up, relax, and take the time to get comfortable with your toy and sensations it provides.
Speaking of prostate toys, finding the right one for you can be a bit of a daunting task for the first time. While you’ll need to find the perfect toy that works for your own needs, the following eight tips will help you pick out the best prostate toy from the large selection available out there.
Consider the Size
The first thing most beginners are going to want to think about when it comes to a prostate toy is size. While prostate massagers are usually designed for their shape and not their size, there are still variations in sizes. Beginners will want to stick to something slimmer; probably around 1 inch in diameter or less in size. If you think you’d prefer a larger toy, consider one with a broader diameter. If you’re unsure of what you’d like, stick to the thinner side of things until you work it out. It’s much better to have a toy that’s slightly underwhelming than one that’s too uncomfortable for you to use at all.
Think About Hands-Free
Many prostate toys were designed to provide hands-free orgasms – the Holy Grail of sexual stimulation – to people with penises. Using a rocking motion, the inserted toy can do the massaging without assistance. Be aware that it takes a bit of patience and practice to reach the stage where you can orgasm without your hands. If you get impatient, you can always get a toy with a remote control and some vibration to finish the job.
Judge the Handle
While most prostate toys tend to have a similar curve to them (that’s designed to hit the prostate in the first place), these toys will vary widely in what handle they happen to have attached to them. Some toys will have a circular handle while others may have a flat base. How you prefer to hold your prostate toy will make a difference in which handle works best for you. Consider your body and physical limitations and consider what will work for you.
Muse about Public Use
Butt plugs are often the anal toy of choice for use in public situations, but it can be fun to take a prostate toy out and about too. With a prostate toy’s design and some people’s ability to orgasm hands-free, this allows users to play on a whole new level while in public. If this is something you want to do (and as always, please respect those around you), make sure that you choose a sex toy that doesn’t have a noticeable or painful base to sit on. Toys with a flat base will do best for users who want to take their fun out into the world. LELO’s HUGO is great for public play. You can even hand your partner the remote! If the remote control isn’t for you, you can also check out the less expensive LELO BRUNO.